My Kids Want a Dog
I have always been a “dog person” but I really didn’t have a choice in the matter because I am one of those lucky people that has multiple allergies. You name it and I am probably allergic to it; and among this laundry list of allergies is a severe allergy to cats. While I have always secretly dreamed of sharing my home with a feline, I do have the option of having a dog. But what kind? Over the years I have had many different kinds dogs, from mutts to pure breeds…and I’m not sure what I would choose if I decided to once more go ahead and make a commitment to share my home with a dog.
My kids bring up the idea in different ways through out the week and they are relentless in their quest to make mom “see the light.” They talk about the days when we had our beautiful Bichon and how sweet and good natured he was. They reminisce about some of his most endearing qualities and remind me of just how much I loved him. He was a pure delight, always lifting our spirits when we were down and making us laugh with his quirky little habits. But the more they talk about him, the more I could never replace him with another Bichon. He was just too special to me and it breaks my heart to have to tell them no. Maybe I am warming up once again to the idea of having another dog, but again…what kind? What kind of dog do you share your home with when you lived with and loved the most special dog in the world? I feel that all dogs pale in comparison to him and in a way, think that maybe I would just spend my time comparing the new pup and feeling disappointed if he didn’t measure up to the legend that I have created in my mind about Chuka.
Y on Tue, 18th Nov 2008 7:18 pm
I’ll see your allergy and raise you a sniffle. I have sooooo many allergies too. My fiance says I should live in a bubble. I once had allergy testing done on my back, you know where they prick you to determine what sets you off. Well my entire back was in huge welts and bumps. As it turns out everything from dirt to trees, and everything in between I’m allergic to. The only thing I am not allergic to is bunnies. That’s helpful right?
I am here to help your kids get mom to “see the light” LOL. I love dogs and have a fabulous one myself. I think all kids should be able to enjoy life with a dog, I think they add so much to a family household. That’s assuming they aren’t going to be neglected of course and the kids just forget about ole Rover. Dogs are a huge responsibility and commitment and I think kids need to be aware of that fact also.
I had a cocker spaniel growing up, he was my best friend. I got him when I was about 7 years old and he lived for 16 years. I was devastated when we had to put him to sleep, it felt like a piece of me went with him. All those childhood times I spent with him, the times there was no one there, he was. My forever friend. I now have a german shepherd, and he’s has got to be the best dog on earth. He does suffer from selective hearing but other than that, I can’t imagine life without him. He’s laying in his bed next to me with this grin that is saying, “HELLLO, time for the second walk of the day BIAACCH” Yes I think my dog curses at me sometimes, but in a loving way of course.
Angela on Tue, 18th Nov 2008 8:19 pm
I know that one day we will have a dog again…I really love them. BTW I’m NOT allergic to rabbits either, go figure. What is up with all the crazy allergies anyway? It seems that people are becoming more allergic to things than ever before, and almost all Alopecians that I have spoken to have an allergy to either foods, something environmental or both.
I need to know that I have a good grasp on my own health before I go ahead and committ to having another dog. They really do deserve all the best that a human has to offer.